Lesson 19: Adjusting to Change

Lesson 19: Adjusting to Change

Lesson Resources

Learning Objectives

The purpose of this lesson is to help children to recognize how change impacts our lives and how we can adapt to change.

Lesson Content

Change happens all the time and is something that happens to all of us. Sometimes we can control the change and other times we cannot. Once change is recognized, we can respond to it appropriately and find balance in dealing with change.

Essential Terms

resilient

Lesson Plan

Activity 1: (20 minutes) EVERYTHING CHANGES

Introduce the lesson with the slideshow and student check-in questions. Review the Pyramid of Happiness anchor chart from the slides. Review the fourth and fifth level of the pyramid and perform that action (strike a superhero pose and star-jump with arms and legs spread out wide). Make the connection of controlling our response to change and how it helps us feel good about ourselves and the power we hold. Remind students about the actions associated with each level of the pyramid.

Give each child a piece of ice to observe. Allow them to hold it in their hand, or move it about on the plate or dish. Ask them to tell you about what they know about ice, and what they are observing.

  • What is happening to the ice?
  • How is it changing?
  • Why is it changing?
  • Is this change good or bad?
  • Is there something you can do to make the ice change?

Have a discussion:

  • What are some other things that change?
  • When has something changed in your life?
  • What feelings or emotions can sometimes come when change happens?
  • What is an example of a small change? What is an example of a big change?

Activity 2: (15 minutes) CHANGE AND BIG EMOTIONS

Change can bring big emotions like fear or sadness. Sometimes, change can bring good things too, like excitement, new friends, or new things you didn’t know you’d like.

Read The Koala Who Could by Rachel Bright or watch the read aloud video by Mama’s Got Mac. Have students listen for ways that the koala felt about change.

Have a discussion:

  • How did Kevin feel at the beginning of the story?
  • What emotions did Kevin feel?
  • What big change happened to Kevin, and how did he feel afterwards?
  • What lessons did Kevin learn?
  • Can you think of a change that turned out to be better than you expected? (starting school, having a new baby in the house, etc.)
  • What are some strategies that we have learned that Kevin could have used?
  • What can you do when a friend is having big emotions about changes?

Activity 3: (20 minutes) SHORT-TERM CHANGE/LONG-TERM CHANGE

Change happens every day. Some change is short-term. Some change is long-term.

Short-term change is when something that you are used to looks or feels different for a short amount of time. For example: Usually your parents pick you up from school, but today you are riding the bus. Tomorrow, your parents will pick you up again.

Long-term change is when something that you are used to looks or feels different for a longer amount of time like months, years, or a lifetime. For example: Your mom has a new baby! This new sibling is part of your life for the rest of your life!

Change will always be part of our lives and often brings BIG emotions. Even good changes like a new baby or starting school may cause feelings of anxiousness or uncertainty. With practice, you can control how you will respond to change.

Use the slideshow to discuss the definitions of short-term change and long-term change. After students have a basic understanding, go through the slides showing pictures of change. Students will make themselves “short” (in a squatty position) if the picture is short-term change and “long” (stretching fingertips to the ceiling) if it’s a long-term change.

Activity 4: (10 minutes) I CAN ADJUST TO CHANGE

When we adjust to change, that is called being resilient. Resilient means that whatever happens, we can find ways to adapt to the changes that come our way. Being resilient is a part of living your superstar life. Have a discussion:

  • When change happens and you feel big emotions, what can you do?
  • Tell of a time when you had a hard change. How did you react?
  • Help the children see aspects of resilience in how they have responded to changes.

Sometimes, a long-term change like moving away from friends or a loved one dying can bring sad emotions that feel very big. One way to deal with this kind of change is to focus on the connections that continue to exist, even after a big change.

Read The Kissing Hand, by Audrey Penn or watch the read aloud video by Storytime with Elena.

  • What strategy did the little raccoon and his mother have to help them both adapt to the change they experienced when the raccoon started school?
  • How did this strategy show resilience?
  • How did you feel on your first day of school?
  • What strategies did you have to help you adjust?

Discussion/Journal Prompts

  • When change happens and you feel emotional, what can you do?
  • How does controlling your response to change help you become a superstar version of yourself?
  • What is the difference between short-term and long-term change?
  • How can we help a friend when they are having emotions about changes?

Strategies

  • Identify the change.
  • Is this a big change or a little change?
  • Is this a short-term change or long-term change?
  • How does this change make you feel?
  • What are some good things connected to this change?
  • Talk to an adult or friend about how this change makes you feel.

Application & Extension

Have a discussion about the changes that happen in families. Babies are born, people grow older, sometimes people die, sometimes parents split up or get remarried. Sometimes those changes include moving to a new house, or even getting new siblings or grownups in your family. Remind the children that with all of the changes that families make, the one thing that doesn’t change is how much grownups love their children.

References

  • Bright, R., & Field, J. (2017). The koala who could (First edition.). Scholastic Press, an imprint of Scholastic.
  • Mama’s Got Mac (January 28, 2019). The Koala Who Could | TEACHER READ ALOUD. [Video]. Youtube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hv0kvbud98 
  • Penn, A., Harper, R. E., & Leak. (1993). The Kissing Hand . Child Welfare League of America.
  • Storytime with Elena. (June 3, 2021). THE KISSING HAND by Audrey Penn – Kids book read aloud | Storytime with Elena. [Video]. Youtube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWzGUELaU8c

Book List

  • Tuesday is Daddy’s Day, Elliot Kreloff
  • Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children, Brian Melloni
  • Changes, Changes, Pat Hutchins
  • Ten Beautiful Things, Molly Beth Griffin
  • Home For a While, Lauren Kierstein
  • Mom and Dad Glue, Kes Gray
  • Sunday Chutney, Aaron Blabey

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